With cougars growing in popularity and many young men opting for cougar dating, this hasn’t stopped the cougar myths from doing the rounds. One major truth about cougars is that they are independent and confident women , however the misconceptions are many. Some of the cougar dating myths debunked are as follows:-
A Cougar Preys on Innocent Younger Men
This is of course not true because there are many younger men naturally attracted to older women. Cougars are very desirable women with a lot of sexual appeal and other interesting traits. This is why younger men will definitely find them very appealing. Often times it is these very young men who go after these older women because they consider them worthy conquests. This is very unlike the widespread belief that the woman is the predator.
The Younger Man Will Cheat on Her with a Younger Woman
Unless the younger man is naturally a cheater, the misconception that he will find someone his age and date them behind the cougar’s back is wrong. The relationship between a cougar and her younger man can be fulfilling and genuine for both of them with no lies and secrets. In fact with her confident and young-spirited nature, the cougar is totally compatible with the young man since they are both getting what they seek in that kind of relationship.
The Older Woman Will Lose Interest
They might not have a lot of things in common but to base a relationship’s survival on that is totally wrong. The older woman and the younger man definitely have the same interests in the relationship and when they both play their part, the relationship can last for a very long time. She might be an older woman, independent and probably headstrong; she will not just lose interest and walk away without reason. She is not a brat but an older and mature woman who knows what she wants out of a relationship and will therefore work towards making it a success.
A Younger Man Will Want Children Someday And Dump Her For A Younger Child-Bearing One
The child issue is one that any couple would face. Having children isn’t the most important thing for all young men. If a young man loves this older woman who is special to him, then he might to choose to simply be with her for the rest of his life. She is capable of fulfilling him in many other ways and besides, many younger men go for these older women to avoid the pressure of marriage and children that most younger women subject them to.
They Won’t Fit into Each Other’s Social Lives
Yes there might be some negative reactions and strong opposition from the people in both their lives, but this will mostly happen when the relationship is new. People will in the end simply get used to seeing them together just like any other relationship. The couple that is dating openly will often times be ready to deal with all sorts of reactions from people close to them such as friends and family. Acceptance comes in the end.
Younger Men Who Date Cougars Are Weird
This is not true; the younger men who date older women are no different from their other counterparts who date women their own age. They just love the adventure and the difference that comes with dating an older woman. In fact they might be special in a good way because they have the courage to go after this secure, independent and probably intimidating woman. This is courage that many definitely lack.
There are more cougar dating myths but the above ones are the most common. What is not a myth is the spread of the cougar dating phenomenon across the world. I was shocked the other day looking through Google, to see how far cougar dating has advanced! Even our Aussie Sheilas have got cougar dating web sites!
UK guys are rocking with cougars AND grannies! Can you believe this? Granny dating, GILF dating and MILF dating are very hot in the UK right now and have been for many years. Even wiki has no entry for granny dating! It seems that young UK guys go for seriously older women and why not I say, as older women have much more experience than younger women, are easier to please and won’t whine about not going out to dinner or a disco. Older women want to get it on. Why is this? Women are taking care of themselves much more as they get older. They eat right and keep fit and as a result they look good! One of the hottest granny dating sites in the UK is www.hotgrannydating.co.uk – hey the site might not be the most up to date, but it has thousands of members and a very loyal membership. If you are one of my UK boys or girls, check that site out. It rocks!